The Power of the Pat

      What is the pat? Why the pat on the ass of course. Never underestimate the power of the pat on the ass. Who gives you a pat on your ass and how they do it can communicate so very mush. The pat on the ass is a friendly enough gesture, but believe me we all know how powerful a pat on the ass can be. Given by the wrong person, at the wrong time for the wrong reasons it can be incredibly inappropriate and a disaster. However a nice pat on the ass given by the right person at the right time and with the right intention is incredibly powerful. Personally I love to be patted on my ass. I love being patted on my ass by my wife or actually from just about anyone. but that’s because I am such a slut.

      What I like about being patted on my ass is that it is hopefully given with some sexual intent, Did I mentioned that I am a slut? <grin> For me the best kind of pat on the ass is the firm kind. My favorite is a good solid smack just short of being spanked. Although dear god I do love to be spanked, but we can save that discussion for another time. I prefer a solid swat that says, “Hey you know you are mine”, or “Hey everybody, this ass is mine”. I love to have my ass swatted in public by my wife (or her best friend) because it conveys the air of possession When I squeal it confirms what a little slut I truly am, which is fun.

      So we are clear! Most women do not like to be treated like a sex object, but the truth is that most men would absolutely love to be treated as one. II our culture right now there is a very high percentage of men who wish that someone would give them a nice sound, playful smack on the ass once in awhile. It just feels so good. It should also be noted here that women who realize the power of the pat on the ass, and how men truly feel inside, always seem to get much more of what they want out of life.

     The pat on the ass is a powerful move that empowers those that know how to use it. The fact that the courts are not full of men claiming sexual harassment right now helps make my point. Attention men, leave women alone unless they ask for attention, and women, give him a nice smack on the ass if you think he is cute or if he has done a good job….especially if you want a little attention. Our culture changes and grows, our world is as always changing, in fact the only constant is change. So if you are smart you will change with it. Women, consider the pat on his ass as clear communication.

     Now on rare occasions, when feeling spunky and the feeling is mutual, you may want to give his ass a nice firm squeeze as well. This move will really communicate the “yours cute little ass is mine, should or will be, soon”, to him. Men love it, I know I am one. Of course if the mood strikes (good choice of words) you may want to try a solid grab that pins him gently but firmly to the wall or sink during the next social gathering. This has the potential to make him him putty in your hands, well most him will be like putty anyway. Gals I recommend that you try giving him a good smack, squeeze or solid grab when you want to communicate more clearly that you find him attractive. You will be glad that you treated him like the piece of meat that he is and fantasizes about much of the time. The power of the pat should never underestimated.

     Now this part of my tail is how the pat on the ass can be payment for a job well done. Sometime the perfect payment for a prissy little pussy boy like me is good solid smack on my ass. One that is more like a spank than a pat. Something that tells me that I am yours and that I should listen to and obey you. A solid smack on my ass reminds me that you are the boss, and I do love it when you are the boss my love. Because I do love you and I love being yours. Oh I absolutely love being swatted on my ass in public by you too my love. It lends some fresh dynamic energy to our relationship that is very fun for me. However, could we leave the spanking to our in home life and the gentle pat and squeeze to an occasional display of affection in public? I would so love that, thank you my darling.